Why is the moon envious
Why envious friends or fam and infantile trolls - NEVER win and YOU DO! Soul Food Family Motivation!
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- father how are you doing my darlings
I couldn't resist just sharing a little
bit of my paradise with you in Altair
over here behind me just I feel like I'm
standing on water I'm walking on water
can you see the views Nick stunning and
it's just some of the Sun just went down
and it's kind of fitting because I was
thinking earlier I wanted to do a vlog
on this on this theme and not sure how I
wanted to address it really I think the
main thing is the main thing I really
want you to know and I maybe I've said
this elsewhere some of you may be a
followed me elsewhere like I don't know
LinkedIn or I don't know where you you
found me I'm out you might have heard me
so similar before it's just on this
theme of really success and or or just
even nice things happening to you and
other people's reactions to that so in
other words people's reaction to your
success and accomplishments or just good
luck just plain old good luck right and
when you get the envy when you get the
trolls when you get the mean-spirited
people I kind of just wanted to just do
some give you some pointers and thoughts
really on that and the main thing I
guess is that we're not you know I
wouldn't have a job as a psychotherapist
if everyone was well and I think I'm not
the only one saying this out here saying
this sort of thing you may have had this
before but the main thing to keep in
mind is that people who are disparaging
or kind of troll you online social media
they are not in a good place right and I
mean you just think about it in order to
kind of take the time to either consume
someone's content and just be mean about
it or to not even bother doing that and
just to throw shade sad is that this
really start it just says everything
just in it when you really think about
it but they're not in a good place and I
love I think it was a Shakespeare quote
and I might have got this wrong but I
believe it was Shakespeare said
something like whether you love me or
hate me you know I'm gonna paraphrase it
because I don't know the actual exact
words so whether you love me or hate me
I'm occupying space in your head so kind
of one really right and in a way that's
how marketing works right because it
doesn't matter really if you hate an
advert and the jingle literally drives
you mad and once you just don't you to
wanna throw yourself off a building you
we've all had those adverts haven't we
with the jingles do you even now I mean
just think of it like shaking back when
if you can if you're of a certain age
and you're British you grew up with that
advert there are so many iconic adverts
and whether you love them or hate them
they're in your head they've occupied
space they've done their job so I want
you to keep that in mind if ever you get
that kind of trolling and stuff online
when it's people offline and people
maybe it's someone close to you that you
actually you know their opinion matters
to you that's harder in a way isn't it I
think that's much harder but you can't
take everyone with you you know and I
think that's why this this beautiful
scenery seems so fitting to me because I
want you to as much as it's no perfect
as those insects right there's always
something it's always something you can
be the most successful person in the
world and there will always be something
because that is the nature of life right
it's the nature of life there is always
duality there is always something to
irritate you because you know this is
not a forever place okay getting a bit
spiritual on you now but there has to be
some grips in the honey otherwise we
would never stay still in fact that's
the story behind the stand size that we
have here it also toe the idea there was
a myth that to my knowledge was
something around the fact that everyone
would stand in wonder look at this
divine scenery and get no work done so
the gods send these sand flies which
everywhere here in our town are but who
cares we live in paradise were so
blessed we don't give a really but
yeah I think that's really what I wanted
to tell you my darling the
you know even if it's someone you love
just appreciate that you can't take
everyone with you but what you can do is
you can you can cross that bridge of
your spiritual growth your emotional
physical whatever the development is
that that someone is kind of you know
disparaging you on you can do it anyway
and still love the person and yet not
kind of feel like you can't actually
move forward sometimes we have to cross
that bridge we have to stay in our light
and from the other side we show them the
light they know if they're kind of in
their misery if they're busy kind of
sowing or whatever or you know leaving
shitty comments on your content or if
you're so annoying for example that's
their reality there's nothing you can do
for that person because they don't want
to do anything for themselves so in
other words you cross the bridge anyway
and you wave from your side and you
continue to shine your life okay my
darling even with wet thing the tide is
coming in so I guess that's my cue from
nature to wrap this up and really I
wanted to keep it short my love so I
hope this is useful maybe it's a really
good good timed well-timed reminder of
what we thought we all know this right
stay in your light stay in your truth
stay in your love keep your focus going
don't look back
okay and know that as you do that you
will meet the people who are worthy of
you and who deserve to be in your orbit
I've gotta go and on that note some good
news for me I mean this is just a bit
tangential but I am have you heard the
song I know you feel the line so baby
when you're ready
have you heard that song school vibe and
it's by cookie kawaii
so cookie kawaii is someone who has been
grinding at her craft for so many years
like many artists and only just now this
song gone viral
particularly on Tik Tok and she's doing
incredibly well so as soon as I heard
this song I fell in love with it and I
fell in love with her I followed her
immediately
now she's obviously becoming famous
dosha cat has famously made videos to
her song multiple videos that lots of
stalkers long-term excitement and buzz
around that for cookie kawaii and her
fans were known as the Cookie Monster's
but what's lovely for me is that I think
cookie and we're going to realize that
just like I'm saying the people who are
on her level the people who are and when
I said on her level I don't mean that
there's difference between us as humans
there's no difference it just depends on
us where we are in terms of our energy
if someone is throwing at your work
they're in a lower vibration but then
note they're no better or worse than any
of us right just to be clear but I feel
as though that appreciation that high
vibration that about gratitude and
what's the word it is it's when people
look knowledge and see you right
you know sometimes that comes back it
doesn't always come back but the point
is she swallowed me so now it's like
we're friends and that seems really
righteous she was in my thoughts I was
thinking about the song I love the song
I play as much as I can
everyone in my orbit you know knows that
I love the song but it's you know no
that's a still no one you know we're not
on that level we're at that with that
statement really means much but I'm
telling you this because it kind of
illustrates what I've just been saying
and I just hope it inspires you and it's
a small thing you know you could say
that's well that's very nice Gwendolyn
but doesn't mean much but I think it
does because I think it speaks to why
I'm saying really about our energy and
how that consistent it's not that being
perfect like you can have days and
stuff and feel like giving up and and
give up even you know you you just have
to be true and honest and real with
yourself but I think when you are a good
person
you have a good car and you do you work
at your craft or your job or your work
whatever it is you are doing in life
doesn't matter whether you are a
hairdresser a baker cleaner or a rock
star you're doing it with lovin with the
right tension I think you eventually
start to get that vibration and that
energy back and that's really all I'm
saying here in a way so my darling I
wanted to keep this short I don't take
up too much of your time with us because
it's not necessarily new but it just
felt like somehow I wanted to make this
point and maybe if even one of you hears
this and is encouraged and I am thrilled
with that
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